In order to gain more control over our lives, we must guard what our eyes see, what our ears hear, and also pay close attention to the quality of the words that come out of our mouths.
We are the ones who decide who to grant a "VISA" to our personal energy field. It is our right and duty to not cooperate with any potential negativity, in all its forms.
In most cases, when we succumb to its (negative) effects, the results are already known in advance, and are usually not something we want to experience.
We cannot control what other people say or do. We can only control ourselves, to some extent, depending on the current conditions.
We must adapt to self-examination; Practice renewed self-inquiry, so that we can change and improve with ease.
Either we are the ones "holding on to the steering wheel", or we allow things to happen to us... which is preferable??
How can we help ourselves become better and more efficient on a daily basis?
We can observe the thoughts in our heads; Think before we speak, as we consider the outcome before we're ready to take action.
This is how we can create a system of self-control - not doing what we "feel like" doing, but rather what we know is right for us.
This internal cleansing helps lessen the "darkness" in our lives, while connecting us to God's infinite, everlasting