All your problems will disappear once you give yourself unconditional self love.
Be one with the feeling of simply being... Love yourself!
Allow yourself to explore and expand the feeling of love inwardly to yourself, and outwardly to the world around you.
Realize, that once you are experiencing/being a hundred percent loving, nobody will ever try to take advantage of you.
It's only when you are vibrating, 'I don't trust', that you are sending the universe, 'I'm going to get hurt'..
What is actually occurring in your mind and body, is that you are seeing images, and experiencing feelings of becoming vulnerable - which naturally, you are trying to avoid at all cost.
You are, as always, creating your own reality, depending upon your own filters and past experiences.
What you are ultimately doing, is perpetuating the same feeling you are trying to avoid.
If happiness and inner peace, are what you are seeking, you have to let go of the destructive "stories" you keep telling yourself.
You see, your mind is an amazing tool - it can either build you up, slowly, "brick by brick", or become the fortified wall between yourself and what you want most.
You may be saying to yourself right now, what can I do, this is who I am, I have a defect...
However, that is a cop-out, and you know it!
You CAN change. All you have to do is WANT it badly enough.
Allow all the horror stories and negative feelings, disappear and dissolve from your reality - watch them leave you...
Become friends with yourself once again, by telling yourself only "tales" that can serve you and the people around you, in the best way possible ~